Monday, January 16, 2012

Couples Therapy- Session 2

Well, here I am in therapy with a man that I know to be emotionally abusive.
But I now have to rethink that unprofessional diagnosis... Because each time we leave the session..I am in tears...and he feels vindicated. Could I really be THAT wrong? I guess so... I am left today in a depression that I am finding hard to get out of.
Before he left today, I mentioned that my sister really like the present we/he got her for Christmas.. He responded that he hopes she appreciates the monetary value of the gift because it was expensive. (?) This, from a man who's annual bonus each year is around 350K.. That is the bonus... Not the salary.

I sent him an email telling him that indeed she does appreciate the monetary value of the gift and is very grateful for his generosity ...

1 comment:

James said...

Really, ultimately, only the ones in a relationship and an omniscient god are in a position to say who is "wrong" in a relationship.

But, given this post, the posts on October 10, 2011, and the one on TUESDAY, JULY 06, 2010 (about another relationship, right?), you do seem to exercise poor judgment in (1) the persons with whom you have romantic relationships, (2) whether to continue, or pursue seriously, said relationships, or (3) both 1 and 2. There is the additional possibility that you generate this unproductive relationship behavior in your companions, but (1) that's rare--it's usually more about choosing people with that propensity in the first place, (2) I don't know you, and it's just mean to give serious consideration to this possibility without first seeing some evidence of it.

I wish you the best...